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The Parish Postal Box for Christmas Cards 2023

Send your Christmas cards to your neighbours postage free – and carbon neutral!

The third year running, the service is back and running this year! Please use the postal box to send Christmas cards to your local friends.

The deliverers walk, ride, cycle or drop off en route to elsewhere to get your cards to their destinations in good time – just put them in the blue box at Brocas opposite Brocas Road – and leave the rest to the people (and their dogs and horses!).

The box opens on Friday 1 December and the last post leaves at 4pm on Friday 23rd December.

How Simon came up with the Idea of Hospitality Sunday?

During the month of October our Rector Simon has been preaching about Hospitality and on 29th October we are going to have a short service dedicated to Hospitality. Here is the story of how Simon thought about this idea.

Nearly forty years ago, Susie and I went on holiday to Turkey. We stayed in a rather run down hotel where we met a young married Turkish couple and struck up a friendship despite a considerable language barrier. The couple invited us to stay overnight in their flat in Istanbul, took us on a memorable tour of the city including a slap up meal refusing all our offers to pay. It was an unforgettable example of Eastern hospitality.

Susie and I have always enjoyed giving and receiving hospitality. We love eating with our friends and neighbours and more recently in the Three Spires. There is something very special about sharing a meal with others – we all eat and drink and there is something almost sacramental about eating together. It is no surprise that our chief act of worship is a symbolic meal, the Holy Communion, when we remember the events of Easter each Sunday.

Jesus had many meals, often with those who were not welcome. Hence his being referred to as a glutton, drunkard and friend of sinners (Matthew 11:19). Mindful of this, I will be preaching on the meals Jesus had throughout September and October, building up to Sunday 29th October, which will be designated ‘Hospitality Sunday’. On that day, we’ll have a simple said communion and I’ll invite us all to use this Sunday to offer hospitality to someone. We may then repeat this on other fifth Sundays in future.

Of course, not all of us have the wherewithal, facilities, skills and energy to ‘entertain’. But hospitality and welcome is not the same as entertaining, which often has a lot to do with reciprocating invitations. I remember once visiting an old lady who was close to death. But she rallied and the next time I saw her she asked me – from her bed – to join her in a glass of Rose with cheese crackers. It was a wonderful example of hospitality offered by someone facing huge challenges. All of us can invite someone over for a cup of tea, join someone for a dog walk or visit a coffee shop.

The painting ‘The Light of the World’ by the pre-Raphaelite painter, Holman Hunt hangs in Keble College Oxford and depicts Jesus knocking on a door surrounded by thorns. Underneath are the words of Jesus from Revelation 3:20 “Behold, I stand at the door and knock; if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me”. It’s about welcoming Jesus into lives and has the picture of a meal. So when we offer hospitality, we might even encounter Jesus, who can be the unseen guest at any meal.

God bless you all

Simon

Confirmation in our Parish this Sunday

6pm on 17th September 2023

Two members of our congregation will be confirmed by the Bishop of Rochester at St Peter’s & St Paul’s Edenbridge at 6pm this coming Sunday, 17th September 2023.

We are delighted that Becky Chapman and Rebecca Nicholson have asked to be confirmed and taken the steps towards this.

Do come and support them if you can!

Our next services

JULY

23rd       8am      Said BCP communion – Four Elms

              10am    Family Service – Markbeech*

AUGUST

6th         10am    Holy Communion – Four Elms

13th       10am    Holy Communion – Markbeech

20st        10am    Holy Communion – Hever

27th       10am    Holy Communion – Markbeech

SEPTEMBER

3rd         10am    Holy Communion – Four Elms

For our future service, please check the diary. Diary | Three Spires Benefice (wordpress.com)

We do hope you are going to join us in person. Please bring a mask. We will be social distanced inside the church.

* Especially suitable for young children

New Year Message 2023 from our Rector, Revd.Simon Braid

Dear Friends

2022 has been dominated by big events: the war in Ukraine, coming out of Covid restrictions, the death of the Queen, three Prime Ministers and a cost of living crisis that is on going!

In our local and church communities we have said goodbye to some dearly loved friends and welcomed new people. I’m delighted to have been installed as Rector and that Jane Rosam has been licensed as Lay Minister. We’ve joined formally the Edenbridge Churches in Covenant, celebrated the 900 years of Christian Worship at Hever and been part of BBC Songs of Praise on 18th December.

When I was interviewed in February 2020, I was asked about my priorities and I gave two: Discipleship and the life of Prayer and Children and Young families. Here’s where we are on these:

Discipleship and the life of Prayer

Discipleship is about growing deeper and closer in our personal walk with Jesus and working this out in our daily lives of worship and service. Part of this is our own personal prayer and bible reading. I cannot recommend the Lectio 365 App too strongly, although there are many other prayer and Bible reading materials that can help. I am always ready to provide advice and guidance.

I am also delighted that we have our regular Monday Zoom Bible Study a 6pm and in person at 8pm with ten people attending and a few others in Advent and Lent. I am encouraged by the way people are articulating matters of faith and would encourage others to join us, even just to listen!

Children and Young families

When Jesus took young children in his arms, he reminded us that whoever welcomes them, welcomes him (Mark 9:37). Children are the church of today as well as the church of tomorrow.

We have monthly Family services at each of our churches and have seen strong growth at Forest Church in Hever and have the Children’s choir at Markbeech. We are relaunching Family worship at Four Elms on the third Sunday under the banner of ‘Four Elms at Four’. In addition, we have an open door at both schools.

Can I urge all of you to support these new initiatives by attending yourselves and maybe volunteering to help, encouraging young families you know to come along and letting me know of any newcomers and, of course, praying for God to build his church in the Three Spires.

As we go into 2023, have a look at words from the letter to the Hebrews in the Message paraphrase version and make it our prayer for the future, looking back with thanks and forward trusting in Jesus.

Revd Simon Braid

Discipline in a Long-Distance Race

Hebrews 12:1-3  (The Message)

 Do you see what this means—all these pioneers who blazed the way, all these veterans cheering us on? It means we’d better get on with it.

Strip down, start running—and never quit! No extra spiritual fat, no parasitic sins. Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we’re in.

Study how he did it. Because he never lost sight of where he was headed—that exhilarating finish in and with God—he could put up with anything along the way: Cross, shame, whatever. And now he’s there, in the place of honour, right alongside God.

When you find yourselves flagging in your faith, go over that story again, item by item, that long litany of hostility he ploughed through. That will shoot adrenaline into your souls!

At the 1924 Olympics in Paris, shown in the film, Chariots of Fire, the Scottish sprinter, Eric Liddell won the gold medal in the 400 metres. ‘It has been a wonderful experience to compete in the Olympic Games and to bring home a gold medal’ he said. ‘But since I have been a young lad, I have had my eyes on a different prize. You see, each one of us is in a greater race than any I have run in Paris, and this race ends when God gives out the medals.’

The BROCAS Christmas cards delivery service is BACK!

After the success of last year’s BROCAS Postal Service, the service is back and running this year!

If you are new to the parish or haven’t used it last year, here is the idea: Sending Christmas cards to local friends can be expensive and all that driving around can’t be good for the environment. So Jane Rosam had an idea!

Why don’t we collect the cards in one place and deliver them by feet, while dog walking, by ponies and cycles?

The Collection Point is outside Brocas Farm on Hever Road, so whenever you are on your way to Edenbridge, you can drop the cards and we’ll deliver. No stamp needed! We’ll deliver throughout the Parish ONLY: Hever, Four Elms and Markbeech.

You’ll save time, money and it will be good for the environment!

Have you seen the newest addition to the team?

Winner of the Christmas Card Competition 2022

Thank you all for the lovely artworks for our Christmas Card Competition! There were some really inspired cards and we loved to see the bright colours everybody has used. We are so lucky to have such talented people in our community. Thanks everyone for entering the competition.

The winner for this year’s Christmas Card competition is Shaelyn Beardon, Age 10, Hever Primary School. Well done Shaelyn!

Advent Course

Starts on 28th November

The Advent course will run for the four Mondays: Nov 28th; Dec 5th, 12th & 19th on Zoom at 6pm and in person at 8pm based on ‘Sharing the Christmas Story’ by Sally Welch BRF Advent book. Contact Simon if you would like to attend.

Monday 28th November – Promise

Monday 5th December – Light

Monday 12th December – Mystery

On Zoom at 6.00pm-6.45pm or in person at 8pm – 9pm

Details from simonbraid@icloud.com 07802 809849

The book can be purchased for £8.58 at
https://www.eden.co.uk/christian-books/christmas-and-advent-books/advent
-books/advent-studies/sharing-the-christmas-story-brf-advent-book-2022/

Summer services

All our Summer services will start at 10am.


31st July Eucharist at Markbeech
7th August Holy Communion at Four Elms
14th August Eucharist at Markbeech
21st August Holy Communion at Hever
28th August Holy Communion at Hever
4th September Holy Communion at Four Elms


Also 6th August Open House at Petresfield and we will be arranging something for families at the end of the summer